Although most men come to Thailand for a bit of rest and recreation or a few casual flings, many are surprised to find themselves embarking on a serious relationship with a Thai girl.

A bit like a fish out of water the amorous farang can be worried about committing a cultural blunder and causing offence. He often is not prepared for the complex customs, the mysterious practices and often (to a farang mind) the unpleasantness of the dowry system and the importance of money to friends and family.

This little guide will help prepare you for some of the steps along the road to forming a serious relationship with a Thai up to and including marriage and divorce.

The advice is from personal experience of the writer and from many stories I have heard along the way. Your mileage may vary. Please always bear in mind that just like in the west, Thai's are individuals and often unpredictable.

My personal experiences are with a girl from a small village in Isaan, North East Thailand. Chances are yours will be too; but if she comes from North Thailand or Bangkok or South Thailand the customs and culture can be a little different.