OPEN-ENDED PROSTITUTION AS A SKILLFUL GAME OF
LUCK:
OPPORTUNITY, RISK AND SECURITY AMONG TOURIST-ORIENTED
PROSTITUTES IN BANGKOK
Erik Cohen Department of Sociology and Social-Anthropology
Hebrew University of Jerusalem
INTRODUCTION
Rural to urban migrants from depressed areas of Thailand, and particularly
the Northeast (Isaan), move into Bangkok in ever greater numbers
in search of employment and income for their own subsistence or
for the support of their relatives back home. Prominent among these
are large numbers of young women, many of whom hope to make enough
money in the city to be able to support not only themselves, but
also their parents, siblings and children. They soon realize that
the employment opportunities for uneducated and unskilled workers
are severely limited. In fact, it appears that in recent years the
opportunity structure facing unskilled in-migrant women in Bangkok
has even contracted.
As the price level of basic necessities rose continually
in the metropolis, wages on the depressed labor market remained
low, even as many recent in-migrants were unable to secure a job.
Moreover, even if they can find employment as domestics or in a
factory, the earnings of unskilled laborers will usually not even
reach the 1996 legal minimum wage of 150B (approx. US$ 4.00) a day.
Indeed, many of those who work earn less than Baht 1,000 (US$ 50.00)
a month. This is hardly sufficient for their own upkeep, not to
speak of support for dependents. Many of the women, finding employment
opportunities unsatisfactory, turn to hawking and peddling, a sector
which is notorious for its apparent ability to absorb practically
unlimited numbers of self-employed sellers (Geertz; 1963 : 29).
But even here it becomes increasingly more difficult to establish
oneself, and marginal hawkers are frequently driven out of business.
Many migrants are thus caught in a predicament
from which there is apparently no exit. Under such conditions, prostitution
provides one of the few ways out. Despite the very large number
of women in Bangkok engaging in prostitution in its various forms,
conservatively estimated at 300,000 (Phongpaichit: 1981: 14-15),
this occupation still offers to most women an income considerably
greater than anything they could hope to earn in another line of
work. Massage girls, for example, according to Phongpaichit (1981:
19) reported incomes which "range from $75 to $750 a month,
with over half earning $150 to $300, and another quarter earning
more than that." Brothel girls probably earn less, but even
those -- insofar as they are not "bonded" (Phongpaichit,
19~1: 1T) -- earn more than they could make elsewhere.
Prostitution existed in Thailand long before the
country became a popular destination of sex-tourism. Tourism, however,
had a crucial impact on the trade. Not only did the number of girls
engaging in prostitution grow considerably, but the nature of the
occupation changed with the emergence of the new clientele. The
interaction with white, foreign, male tourists farangs (Cohen, 19~2)
engendered a new subculture of prostitution. It is this which I
seek to capture in the concept of "open-ended" prostitution
and analyze on the basis of my study of an urban lane (soi) in the
hinterland of one of the principal tourist areas of Bangkok, conducted
as part of an ongoing longitudinal urban anthropological study.
I lived in a slum in the soi for two months at
a time, and conducted observations and in-depth interviews with
inhabitants and informants. In the soi life, several hundred Thai
women derive their livelihood from tourists and other foreigners,
mainly as bar and coffee shop girls. Many of these girls have rooms
in the slum. I conducted extended conversations with several dozen
girls and collected some biographies. Family background, education,
work-experience in and outside of prostitution, and attitudes and
relationships with farangs were the principal topics of investigation.
I also talked to a large number of farangs in and outside the soi
(Cohen, forthcoming a and b). Despite the reputation of Bangkok
as a world center of sex-tourism, most prostitutes work in brothels
and massage parlors with a predominantly local clientele.
Tourist-oriented prostitutes, operating from bars
and coffee shops constitute a small portion of the total number
of women in the trade, but one of considerable economic importance.
They are in no small degree responsible for tourist spending, thus
contributing to national foreign currency earnings. They are, in
a sense, the elite of the trade: their life-chances, work conditions
and income are incomparably better than those of most girls working
with a local clientele. Indeed, the circumstances of their work
enable them to deny that they are "prostitutes" (sophenee)
and to define themselves as "working with foreigners"
(tham ngan gahp farang) or with "guests" (tham ngan gahp
khaek). These occupational self-conceptions closely resemble the
designation "hospitality girls", by which their counterparts
in Manila are known (Neumann, 19~9; van der Velden, 1982). The girls
profess to be insulted when they are called "prostitutes";
some of their farang customers and boyfriends also vehemently oppose
that designation.
The girls do not differ much in background and
education from those working with a local clientele, but are, on
the average, older than those working in brothels. They are mostly
in their twenties or early thirties, of rural background, predominantly
from the Northeast. Most have children from an earlier, disrupted
marriage or cohabitation with a Thai man. They have usually already
lived in Bangkok for a few years, having worked as domestics, factory
workers or hawkers prior to turning to their present occupation.
They have not generally worked as prostitutes with a local clientele
prior to engaging in tourist-oriented prostitution. Those I talked
to worked in bars and coffee shops for a couple of days up to --
mostly intermittently -- a few years. They are a highly mobile group,
frequently changing their habitation and moving in and out of the
trade. Some of this mobility is related to the special character
of "open ended" prostitution, to be explained below.
The girls usually live alone or with another girl
in a rented room. Several houses in the soi cater exclusively to
the girls. Most of their free time interaction is with other girls
in the trade. They tend to form closely-knit peer-groups of girls
living in the same house or yard and working in the same bar or
coffee shop (in recent years, the bar and coffee shop group also
hang out in the popular discos and nightclubs). Members of such
groups assist and support one another in times of need or crisis,
financial or emotional. They often claim to be "sisters",
even if they are not really related. Peers are their main reference
group and much of their conduct, attire, and aspirations can be
understood in terms of their relations and competition with peers.
However, despite the mutual dependency, the girls are also suspicious
of one another -- an ambiguity which runs through many kinds of
primary relations in Thai society.
Some girls have Thai boyfriends who live with them
when they are not in the company of a farang customer. These Thai
men leech on the girls, but do not usually control them, protect
them or hustle customers, and hence cannot be described as pimps.
They often take a large share of the girls' earnings which they
spend towards their own subsistence, oftentimes on alcohol or gambling,
which creates an additional strain to an already fragile "relationship."
Most girls work in a few dozen bars and several big coffee shops
not far from the soi. With the exception of those who serve as go-go
dancers in bars, the girls are not employed by the establishments,
but operate on their own. Bar-girls, however, are not free to leave
the premises at will.
Customers who take out a girl from a bar (but not
from a coffee shop) have to pay a "barfine" to the bar.
The girls are however, free to keep any money they receive from
their customers. The bar and coffee-shop girls thus differ from
prostitutes working in brothels, massage parlors and similar establishments,
who frequently receive only a fraction of their customers' payments
-- the bulk of it going to the owners, procurers, taxi-drivers,
etc. (Khin Thitsa, 1980). Bar and coffee shop girls are thus essentially
independent operators or freelancers. Their independence is a crucial
precondition for open-ended prostitution, increasing both the chances
and the hazards of their trade.
The girls who work in bars derive their income
from three principal sources: go-go dancing, for which they are
paid a fixed sum of about 6,000 B (US$150) a month; drinks with
customers, of which their cut is usually Baht 20-40 B (U5$0.50-1.00)
per drink; and prostitution, which usually pays about Baht 500-1000
for a "short time" and Baht 1000+ for a night; but being
"open-ended" the relationship may be extended beyond that,
and eventually bring in many times more. Of the three sources of
income, prostitution is the one the girls are most interested in;
go-go dancing and hustling for drinks, though in themselves financially
not unimportant, seem secondary sources of income -- a stabilizing
counterpart to the uncertainty of prostitution. They are also ways
to attract customers and start a liaison. Coffee-shop girls, in
contrast, on occasion drink with the customers, but derive their
income exclusively from prostitution. Still, their trade is considered
more lucrative and convenient, and many bar-girls switch after some
time to a coffee shop, or move to coffee shops after the bars close
for the night.
The girls use the various services in the soi which
cater to their needs, such as general stores, stalls, restaurants,
seamstress shops and beauty parlors. Those living in the slum rarely
depart beyond its limits except for work. They live seemingly frugally,
and indeed spend little on food and other basic necessities. But,
once they have money, it passes quickly through their hands on clothing,
cosmetics, drinks, gambling, and, in some cases, drugs. Almost all
have family obligations and support their children, parents or younger
siblings from their income -- although the actual remittances seem
to be smaller than they claim. Few girls remain in tourist-oriented
prostitution long enough to make a career out of it. However, many
girls do stay in the trade longer than they had originally intended
(cf. Phongpaichit, 1981: 18-19). A few are in their mid-thirties,
an age which is considered old for a prostitute in Thailand (Khin
Thitsa, 1980: 14). While I have not systematically examined their
patterns of mobility and the factors influencing their eventual
success or failure in the trade, the latter seems to depend essentially
on their ability to exploit changing opportunities, while at the
same time building for themselves a basis of economic and emotional
security, which will enable them to overcome the uncertainties inherent
in their situation.
THE DYNAMICS OF OPEN-ENDED PROSTITUTION
Prostitution has been conceived of by sociologists as an emotionally
neutral, indiscriminate, specifically remunerated sexual service
(Lamert, 1951: 238; Gagnon, 19G8: 592-3). Prostitutes were pictured
as meeting their customers in temporarily limited, usually brief,
well-defined encounters. Even though a prostitute may build up a
permanent clientele, each encounter is typically a discrete, separately
remunerated affair, during which a specific sexual act is performed.
Repetitive encounters with the same customer are ordinarily not
supposed to create a continuous relationship, nor to lead to any
emotional involvement on the part of the woman; indeed, professional
prostitutes develop psychological defense mechanisms which control
such involvement (Rasmussen and Kuhn, 19T6: 2T9).
Though prostitutes may differ considerably in their
income, depending upon the nature of the establishment in which
they work, the class of their customers, their attractiveness and
the kinds of services they provide, remuneration is routine and
usually fixed or agreed upon in advance. There are few uncertainties
in the situation, and if there are, these relate primarily to the
dangers of AIDS, venereal infection or physical attack upon the
prostitutes, rather than any extraordinary rewards or benefits which
may accrue from their customers. I suggest the term "open-ended"
prostitution to characterize a kind of relationship between a prostitute
and her customer which, though it may start as a specific neutral
service, rendered more or less indiscriminately to any customer,
may be extended into a more protracted, diffused and personalized
liaison, involving both emotional attachment and economic interest.
The tourist-oriented bar and coffee-shop girls living in the soi
illustrate such "open-ended" prostitution, but the concept
is also applicable to tourist-oriented prostitutes in some other
developing countries, and especially the "hospitality girls"
of Manila (van der Velden, 1982).
My analysis departs from the difference between
the opportunity structure facing the tourist-oriented prostitute
in bars and coffee shops and that facing brothel and massage parlor
girls working with a local clientele. Whatever the size and distribution
of the earnings of brothel and massage-parlor girls, they derive
from essentially routinized and brief encounters with clients; hence,
given the type of establishment in which they work, their earnings
depend primarily on the number of customers they serve. Bar and
coffee-shop girls probably earn, on the average, less than massage
parlor girls in the first-class establishments, but more than girls
working in brothels. They operate on a buyer's market -- the number
of girls in bars and coffee shops usually much exceeds the number
of prospective customers. There is also less turnover of customers:
while a brothel or massage parlor girl may have intercourse with
several men a night, bar or coffee shop girls rarely have it with
more than one, and in off-season periods, they may go for days without
a customer. The important point to note, however, is that their
opportunities are differently structured than those of brothel and
massage parlor girls, owing to the much less routinized character
of their relations with customers.
The range of their incomes is considerably greater
than that found in other types of prostitution. The earnings of
a girl may also fluctuate widely --- between utter pennilessness
one day and considerable riches the other. It is this extreme variability
and uncertainty, which endows the occupational culture of open-ended
prostitution with some of its distinguishing features. The girl
who meets a customer in a bar or coffee shop in most cases retires
with him initially for a "short-time", usually one act
of sexual intercourse, or "longtime", a single night.
That initial encounter is normally of a purely mercenary character
(Cohen, 1982: ~15); but it is significant that the girl frequently
underplays the commercial side (cf. van der Velden, 1982) and often
"stages" affection for the customer (Cohen, 19~i2:415-16).
Such an approach facilitates the extension of the initial brief
encounter into a more permanent liaison.
If the customer desires the girl to stay, and he
is agreeable to her, she may simply stay on; the customer then continues
to pay the bar money. The relationship in such a case often changes
from a purely mercenary one into a mixed liaison, consisting, on
the part of the girl, of both economic interests and emotional involvement;
in some cases, it may even be transformed into a love relationship
(Cohen, 1982: 416-I7). If the couple stays together for more than
a week or two, the girl usually leaves her job in the bar or coffee
shop for the length of her partner's stay. In some cases she returns
to the bar, but abstains from relations with other men and she usually
demands the same of her partner. The fact that she does not "work",
however, can be used by her to put moral pressure upon her partner
to reimburse her for her losses.
It is important to note that most short liaisons
are generally not purely contractual economic relationships. Khin
Thitsa (1980; 15) writes that "one woman costs for the night
about $40; for a week's rental (i.e.: seven days and seven nights
service) the bargain price of $100 is offered"; while correct
in substance, this statement is somewhat misleading. In some instances
the couple may agree that the girl will receive a given sum a day.
But the girl's reward is rarely stated in such fixed, commercial
terms. Rather, it depends on and fluctuates with many factors, such
as the farang's wealth and generosity and the girl's skill and willingness
to extricate money from him.
If the partner is a well-to-do, short-term tourist,
the girl may "give it up" during his stay, move with him
into a luxurious hotel, eat in the best restaurants, receive expensive
gifts of clothing or jewelry and enjoy a holiday in a fashionable
seaside resort, such as Phuket or Ko Samui. Upon his departure,
she may receive a considerable amount of money. If he is less wealthy,
she may just savor the agreeable relationship as long as it lasts.
In any case, the girl tends to become tense prior to her partner's
departure, both in anticipation of the size of her remuneration
and of the emotional impact of the rupture of her liaison and of
the return to her ordinary routine in the bar or coffee shop.
In fact, in many cases the liaison does not explicitly
terminate with the farang's departure, but is expected to continue
even after separation. Addresses are exchanged, promises of continual
love and of return and renewal of the liaison are made. Afterwards,
letters are exchanged, through which the relationship lingers on
for a while, but then usually peters out as both partners get otherwise
involved. Some liaisons, however, continue intermittently for years,
the farang returning regularly to see his girlfriend. Some girls
get invited for a visit abroad -- indeed, a surprisingly large number
of those in the soi have visited various European countries. A smaller
number of girls get married; some of these remain abroad and get
out of prostitution altogether. Others, however, return after a
short while as their marriage breaks up, and resume their previous
occupation. Still others go abroad, and either willingly or unwillingly
engage in prostitution there.
The prolongation of a liaison beyond the actual
departure of her partner has both an economic and an emotional significance
for the girl. It gives her the feeling that there is someone who
cares for her and on whom she may depend in times of need, in her
insecure and frequently changing predicament. A Thai boyfriend,
is thus a haven of emotional security, even as the girl passes from
one temporary liaison to another, a process which she frequently
finds emotionally taxing (Cohen, 1982: 421). Many girls therefore
maintain a lively correspondence with their past boyfriends, telling
them of their problems and often asking for financial support to
help them out of real or contrived troubles. Some, indeed, have
developed considerable dexterity in corresponding with a number
of men, from whom they solicit, and receive, support (Cohen, forthcoming
a). Indeed, one way for a girl past her prime to insure her future,
is to build up a coterie of boyfriends who visit her regularly and
to all of whom she serves intermittently as a mistress.
THE CULTURE OF SEXUALITY AND OPEN ENDED PROSTITUTION
Traditional Thai culture emits contradictory messages, which facilitate
conflicting interpretations of the nature of Thai society and the
extent of change in contemporary Thailand (Cohen, 1984). This generalization
is well illustrated in the current debate surrounding the status
of women in Theravada Buddhist ideology. Khin Thitsa (1980), taking
up a theme first developed by Kirach (1975), argued that the inferior
position of women in Buddhism preconditions them to become prostitutes:
"With the low value attached to the female body and the female
spirit by Buddhism, woman has been sufficiently degraded already
to enter prostitution. If historically woman has served men helping
him as wife, minor wife or mistress, it is not such a big step to
become an actual prostitute. Indeed, the traditional emphasis on
polygamy in Buddhist society encourages the widespread practice
of prostitution in modern Thailand (Khin Thitsa, 1980: 23). This
position has recently been severely criticized by Keyes (forthcoming),
who emphasized the elevated position of women in Buddhism, and argued
that the urban secularized image of woman as sex symbol is a completely
new cultural pattern, "unallocated with any tempering Buddhist
message". It follows that impoverished rural-to-urban migrant
girls are forced, under the pressure of circumstances and against
their better cultural convictions, to adopt this novel image, as
they enter prostitution in their struggle for survival. If Kirsch
and Khin Thitsa's position is adopted, prostitution is thus just
a contemporary form of an ingrained cultural pattern. If one adopts
Keyes' position, however, it is a novel form of sexual relations,
based on an essentially Western "market mentality", which
tends to commercialize everything, including sex.
My material on open-ended prostitution holds forth
the possibility of mediating between the conflicting views of Kirsch
and Khin Thitsa on the one hand, and Keyes on the other. Whatever
the Buddhist ideal of womanhood, there is little doubt that the
actual standing of women in the traditional Thai social hierarchy
is fairly low. This lowly standing may well inculcate young rural
Thai women with a diffuse service-orientation, which facilitates
their acceptance of such inferior roles as prostitution. At the
same time, however, the fact that they fail to realize the cultural
ideal of womanhood, as described by Keyes, fills them with shame
and a feeling of "loss of face", particularly in cases
where women who had been married before feel forced by circumstances
to enter prostitution. This sensation, however, is tempered by another
cultural principle, that of individual freedom of mobility: as Kirsch
(1975) pointed out, the fact that Thai women are in daily life less
subject to religiously inspired restrictions facilitates their involvement
in entrepreneurial activities.
I suggest that open-ended prostitution is one area
in which such entrepreneurs find expression. It demands no initial
capital, and, if one is willing to take risks and dare one's "luck",
holds forth the promise of considerable opportunities. One way to
interpret the girls engaging in open-ended prostitution then is
to see them as risk-taking, small-scale, entrepreneurs. The culturally
patterned role of the girls as daring entrepreneurs, relieved from
some restrictions incumbent upon men, fits remarkably well into
the structure of opportunities in open-ended prostitution. However,
the uncertainty, insecurity and impermanence involved in the trade,
call into play the contrary cultural theme of hierarchical dependency
of a lower status person on a higher status person or patron (Hanks,
1975: 198-200). In the context of open-ended prostitution, this
means that the girl will seek to establish a permanent relationship
with a man toward whom she could play the role of a mistress. While
the attitude of individualistic entrepreneurial opportunism induces
in the girls a tendency to trade-off sexual attraction for money,
the contrary attitude of hierarchical dependency induces a tendency
to combine the quest for emotional attachment and material benefits
in a master/mistress relationship. In my earlier work (Cohen, 1982)
I have conceptualized four types of relationships between the girls
and farangs, based on the mix of economic interests and emotional
involvement which they embody:
1. Mercenary -- based on an emotionless "economic
exchange". 2. Staged -- also based on "economic exchange",
but accompanied by faked or staged emotions on the part of the girl.
3. Mixed -- based on both "economic exchange", as well
as emotional involvement on part of the girl. 4. Emotional -- based
primarily or exclusively on emotional involvement or "love"
(Cohen, 1982: 414-17).
This is an essentially etic typology, i.e., one
constructed by an external observer with the help of general theoretical
concepts taken from Blau's (1967) exchange theory. Whatever its
adequacy, it disregards the emic conception of the Thai girl-farang
man relationships, i.e. the manner in which it is interpreted in
the Thai culture. I shall now attempt such an emic reinterpretation
of the typology. Such an analysis is intended to examine to what
extent the prevailing conception of tourism-oriented prostitution
is essentially a Western or also a Thai one: i.e. whether, under
the impact of exogenous factors, the girls adopted a Western view
of their trade and their relationships with their customers; or
whether they reinterpreted the traditional Thai cultural codes in
a new context.
An analysis of the girls' own conceptions and attitudes
to the four relationships indicates that each is the subject, for
different girls, and perhaps even on different occasions for the
same girl, of both a Western and a Thai "emic" interpretation.
1) Mercenary: This type comes closest to the kind
of prostitution prevalent in the modern West (Gagnol, 1968: 592-3).
Indeed, many of the girls interpret this type of relationship in
essentially Western terms, as a clear-cut economic exchange in which
a specific sexual service is provided for money. However, this type
of relationship is frequently factiously assimilated to the culturally
more acceptable gift-relationship. The girl refuses to quote her
price explicitly, preferring to leave remuneration to the generosity
of her customer (Cohen, 1982: 411). Her remuneration thus becomes
a kind of gratuity. Though remaining an essentially economic transaction,
its implicit character has several advantages for the girl. It enables
her to disassociate herself from the ordinary prostitute and thus
to enhance her self-image as one who "works with guests".
Simultaneously, it is also a display of Thai opportunism by appealing
to her customer's generosity, she may extricate from him a much
larger sum than she would ever dare to ask for explicitly. Finally,
it also helps to "open up" the initial brief encounter
into a more protracted liaison.
2) Staged: While the purely mercenary relationship
is a purely sexual affair, without any display of emotions, in the
"staged" relationship, the girl fakes feelings, emotions
or sexual attraction to the customer, which she does not, in fact,
experience. Staging, however, may also be easily understood from
two contrasting perspectives. From a Western perspective as a trick
played upon the customer as a means to attract him, bolster his
ego and attach him sexually to the girl, thereby enhancing her material
rewards (cf. Rasmussen and Kuhn, 1976: 279); or from a Thai cultural
perspective as a playful display of personalized service (cf. de
Gallo and Alzate, 1976), expressing a culturally induced motive
to please her sexual partner, as she would a Thai man to whom she
is wife or mistress. While like Amittatapana in the story quoted
by Keyes (forthcoming), she may do so in order to receive greater
material benefits from an emotionally unrewarding relationship,
she thus also acts out a Thai cultural theme -- an obligation of
those lower in the social hierarchy to please those higher up on
it.
3). Mixed: This type, involving both material interests
and a genuine emotional attachment on the part of the girl, is also
subject to both emic perspectives. It may be approached from a Western
perspective -- in which case it will be based on the assumption,
generally taken for granted in Western cultures, that economic remuneration
and emotional attachment are substitutive (hence the maxim that
"love cannot be bought"). In that case, the greater the
girls involvement, the less she will look for material rewards from
her partner as an inducement to continue the relationship. From
the Thai cultural perspective, however, economic remuneration and
emotional attachment are often seen as additive; girls tend to assimilate
their "mixed" relationships with farangs to the cultural
model of the relationship of a Thai mistress to her master. Such
a perspective induces the girl to react emotionally to her partner
in accordance with the amount of material benefits she receives
from him, interpreting these as a token of her value, attractiveness
and desirability to him, as well as of his generosity. The girl
in such cases is in a state of emotional dependence with her partner,
rather than in love, in the Western sense -- but her feelings cannot
be said to be faked.
4). Emotional: In this type, material benefits
cease to be a significant factor in the relationship, which depends
primarily or exclusively on the mutual infatuation of the partners.
Here too, however, two emic perspectives can be distinguished. From
a Western perspective, the girl may well perceive such a relationship
as an instance of the imported cultural model of "romantic"
love. But she may also view it from a Thai perspective as an acting
out of the culturally approved pattern of selfless devotion of the
wife to her husband. While my materials indicate that each of the
various types of relationships is, indeed, emically interpreted
differently by different girls and on various occasions by the same
girl according to each of the two cultural models, I have no precise
data on the relative incidence of each interpretation. My hunch,
however, is that the traditional Thai interpretation is more ingrained
and more common than the modern Western one, especially among recent
arrivals on the scene.
Relationships between Thai girls and farang men
are thus a fertile area for cross-cultural misunderstanding. A relationship
which appears to a Westerner highly westernized, may be acceptable
to the girl because it fits a Thai cultural pattern. Precisely in
the more protracted and intimate relationships, the differential
interpretation may suddenly lead to an acute crisis, as the cultural
gap separating the partners dawns upon them. Moreover, it is doubtful
whether the alternative emic models of interpretation of the various
types of relationships penetrate the consciousness of the girls
themselves, or that they distinguish them clearly. There are cases
in which they interpret a relationship equivocally in terms of both
models, switching precipitately, in moments of conflict, from one
emic perspective to the other. Such ambiguity adds to the bewilderment
of their uncomprehending farang partners.
Their lifestyle also creates many situations of
conflicting interests, wherein the girl must create a complex system
of stories and lies to protect herself from the realities of having
numerous boyfriends, and accommodating each of them when their visits
overlap. When this occurs, girls often use the excuse that they
must return to their villages to see their families, a story the
farang cannot usually confirm, but which sounds both reasonable
and safe from his perspective. Lying about where she goes and who
she sees also covers the time she spends away from her customer,
during which the girl sees her Thai boyfriend or takes an occasional
offer that she cannot refuse. The deception factor therefore becomes
an integral part of the womans lifestyle and often becomes too complex
a system to remember, leading to more and more contradictions that
become evident to her farang boyfriend over time. This aspect of
deceit is interpreted by the girl as less of a moral sin than as
do Westeners, who value honesty as the cornerstone of any kind of
relationship. Whereas in Thai culture, such deception, on all levels,
is linked to the Thai cultural notion that what one does not know
cannot hurt them.
RISK AND LUCK: THE GAME ELEMENT IN OPEN-ENDED PROSTITUTION
Open-ended prostitution is a non-routine occupation. By the same
token it involves a strong element of chance -- in the sense of
both risk of life and limb and opportunity for success and riches,
which is significantly greater than in more routine forms of prostitution,
such as brothels or massage parlors. As a side note, open ended
prostitutes have a higher incidence of suicide, attempted suicide
and substance abuse than brothel and massage parlor girls, seemingly
due to the transitory nature of their lifestyle and the economic
and emotional instability that brings about.
This element of chance, which cannot be completely
reduced and mastered through knowledge and skill, takes on emically
the character of "luck" (chok) (Cf. Mosel, 1966: 193-5;
also Zulaika, 19-i1). Work in open-ended prostitution thus becomes
a skilled game of hazard or "luck". This forms an important
ingredient in the motivation and attitude of the girls toward their
trade. Safety and security is one of the reasons for prostitutes
to work in establishments or to attach themselves to pimps. The
open-ended prostitution of bar and coffee-shop girls is devoid of
any of the safety-arrangements found in other establishments. The
girls are on their own, and once they depart with a customer, they
are essentially at his mercy.
In this situation, they face three kinds of risk:
a. Material: the most common risk is that the customer may exploit
the girl, i.e. make use of her sexual services and then abandon
her or refuse to remunerate her most girls are helpless against
such exploitation, and routinely take it in stride as part of their
job. A more devious risk is the demand for payments, made by corrupt
policemen, in exchange for the girls liberty. This risk is faced
especially by coffee-shop girls. The coffee-shops are frequently
raided by police, mostly in token attempts to erase nominally illegal
prostitution (Hail, 19~0: 14). Instead of going to jail, many girls
prefer to pay off the police, usually to the tune of 500B (about
U.S. $15.00). The girls, scared of being arrested, therefore carry
with them to work a sum of money -- but then they are exposed to
another kind of risk, that of theft: Cases are known in which farang
men took girls to remote locations, and after intercourse, robbed
them of their money.
Physical safety: the girls are defenseless against
attack by disturbed or dissatisfied customers. They may suffer physical
attack, and, in extreme cases, even pay with their lifves, as did
one girl in a hotel room in the summer of 1996 -- a case which provoked
widespread apprehension and fear among the girls in the soi.
Health: AIDS and venereal disease are widespread
among prostitutes in Bangkok (Khin Thitsa, 1980: 13; Suthaporn,
19E~3), although it is apparently lower among those oriented to
tourists than among those working with a local clientele. Still,
many tourists do infect themselves during their sojourn and transmit
the disease from one girl to another. Girls who are new to the trade
are often terrified of V.D., whereas the older ones take it as part
of their occupational risk. Many girls go regularly for V.D. check-ups,
and carry "V.D. cards". Some bars actually demand such
regular checks. Still, the checks are not wholly dependable and
infected girls continue to engage in the trade, thus contributing
to the spread of such diseases.
The challenge facing a girl engaged in open-ended
prostitution, is to develop those skills which enable her to maximize
her opportunities, while minimizing these and similar risks. These
consist primarily of the ability to discriminate dangerous and unpromising
from safe and generous clients. The skill to attract the latter;
the capacity to create the most advantageous relationship with them
often means transforming a single encounter into a more permanent
liaison.
Skill and chance are obviously in an inverted relationship:
the greater one's skill, the more control one has over the situation,
and hence the smaller the element of' chance. However, whatever
the degree of skill, an irreducible element of chance always remains
(Mosel, 1955 : 195; cf. also Zulaika, 1981). This is greater for
the less skillful, smaller for the more skillful girls. It is this
element which is emically conceived of as "luck" and plays
a prominent role in the occupational culture of the girls. In comparison,
the development of skills, through not unimportant, plays a secondary
role. Many girls depend in their work on their natural endowment,
for which, indeed, they are appreciated by their customers. There
is none of the professional training, found in American prostitution
(Neyl, 197T). To the extent that there is some development of skills,
it is distinctly amateurish and informal. It comes mostly from contact
with more experienced girls, who advise the newly arrived ones on
how to deal with customers.
The principal area of skill in which the need for
training is most often perceived by the girls is that of foreign
languages, which in practice means English, the lingua franca of
the trade. Many girls profess a desire to learn English, which,
they claim, will enable them to find more and better customers.
Many indeed begin to teach themselves the language, mostly with
the aid of Thai text books for self-instruction. Few, however, persist
in their study, finding that it overtaxes their learning capacity,
which was stunted by their inadequate and limited rural education.
None of the girls attended the English conversation club in the
soi, a medium of instruction very popular among the young Thai middle
class. Most girls after some time in the trade do acquire a basic
sprinkling of English, but their conversation is severely limited
to a few routine topics. Indeed, communication with customers is
usually conducted in a simplified "foreigner talk" (Him
no speak). An additional constraint is the visiting non-Anglophone
farang's incompetence in English. The point to note is that the
girls are aware of the importance of English for their job, but
are still unable or unwilling to study it systematically and persistently.
Another area of skill, in which the girls are more
proficient, is the care of their attire and general appearance.
Even a casual observer will notice the fast transformation in the
appearance of a newly arrived girl in the first week or two after
her arrival on the scene. Girls, especially if they came recently
from their village, usually start work in their rural finery, use
little make up and do their hair in a rural or provincial style.
Soon, upon earning some money, they acquire the working outfit of
tourist-oriented prostitutes: tight jeans, T-shirts (often imprinted
with some English word, such as "Yes") and high-heeled
shoes. They put on make-up and paint their nails. Later on, gold
jewelry, frequently received as a present from their boyfriends,
is added, and constitutes the most conspicuous symbol of their occupational
success. More recently, material possessions such as mobile telephones
have added further illusions of status to the garb. On the whole,
however, the appearance of most girls resembles that of the urban
Thai lower-middle class, but is a shade louder. Older women, who
have experience in the trade, but whose charms have suffered with
age, develop considerable dexterity in improving their appearance
when preparing for work -- so much so that they are hard to recognize
in their nocturnal work attire, for one who knew them in their diurnal
leisure appearance in the soi.
Girls who specialize in late night work in the
discos or coffee shops often put on fancy or outlandish attire --
such as provocative clothing, complex hairdos or fingernails painted
in a variety of colors. However, it is important to note that though
such attires are purportedly intended to enhance a girl's attractiveness
to prospective customers, they also tend to become part of a game
which the girls play among themselves. Clothing and hairdos, and
especially gold jewelry, are a subject of much interest and concern
for the girls. Self-care takes up much of their free time and is
a principal subject of conversation in the small, tightly-knit groups
in which most girls spend their leisure time. I suggest that, in
their endeavor to outdo one another, a tendency to wear outlandish
clothing, tattooing and piercing develops, which may well be detrimental
to the chances of a girl's success with farang customers, but serves
the game of one-upmanship which the girls play with one another.
In contrast to brothel and massage parlor prostitution,
the girls in open-ended prostitution enjoy considerable discretion
in the choice of their customers. Since open-ended prostitution
is both risky and promising, the girls' skill in the selection of
the right customer seems to be crucial for their success. As far
as can be established, the girls are in fact motivated by two kinds
of consideration in this respect: the attractiveness of the customer,
and his seeming affluence and generosity. Pecuniary considerations,
however, in many instances take precedence over sexual ones, and
the girls frequently decline to stay with a customer who is sexually
gratifying but fails to remunerate them sufficiently. If they dislike
a customer, however, they may decline to go out with him, even if
promised a considerable amount of money. They therefore tend to
prefer pleasant, affluent-looking, recently arrived tourists, who
are known to be safe and generous with money.
Owing to the open-ended character of the form of
prostitution practiced by the girls, their success depends on their
skill at a "soft sell"; rather than hustling the customer
to buy a more expensive service -- a skill taught to American brothel
prostitutes (Iieyl, l9TT) -- the girl learns how to extricate money
from her customer by appealing to his generosity and compassion,
rather than by outright demands for payment, and to attach him to
her by subserviently attaching herself to him.
The girls develop a great dexterity in keying (Goffman,
1~T1~) their personal stories so as to stress their poverty and
financial problems -- e.g. their need for money to pay the rent
or hospital bills for themselves or their relatives, or to support
their children, parents or younger siblings. Some indeed straightforwardly
fabricate nonexistent financial needs, rather than ask their farang
boyfriends expressly for remuneration. Entreaties for help, indeed,
do not stop with the departure of the farang, but usually constitute
the principal raison-d'etre of the girls' correspondence with ex-boyfriends
(Cohen, forthcoming a).
There are certainly considerable differences between
the girls in their skills in attracting customers and profiting
from the relationship. These find expression in the wide discrepancies
in the economic and personal success of similarly endowed girls,
some of whom have accumulated significant amounts of money in their
bank accounts, enjoy a steady stream of support from ex-boyfriends
or marry rich and attractive foreigners, while others remained poor
and lacking any security for the future.
The importance of skills is generally perceived
by the girls themselves, who say appreciatively that a girl is keng
(clever, skillful) at doing this or that. Still, they are even more
aware of the fact that skillfulness in itself is not a sufficient
guarantee of success, owing to the irreducible element of chance
in the trade -- "luck" (chok). Open-ended prostitution
is thus, from the emic perspective of the girls, essentially a "skillful
game of luck", for success in which one has to be both keng
and have chok. I suggest that in open ended prostitution in Thailand,
a greater emphasis is given to luck than in the more professional
prostitution in the West. If this is correct, then the readiness
of the Thai girls, trusting their luck, to take incalculable risks
becomes more comprehensible.
While Theravada Buddhism is lenient towards prostitution
(Keyes, forthcoming), it does not approve of it, nor does luck have
a place in orthodox Theravada theology. Still, in Thai folk religion,
Buddha (and other supernatural beings) is frequently supplicated
for luck and good fortune (cf. Piker, 7,968: 387). Indeed, the girls
working in open-ended prostitution are not only frequently devout,
but regularly supplicate Buddha prior to going to work, for good
luck, success and protection -- whether at their house altar or
at an altar erected in the bars. Though they might be ashamed of
their trade, they certainly do not see it as so radical a deviation
that it places them outside the fold of religion and denies them
religious succor and protection. Indeed, as McDowell (1982: 504)
commented, "In Thailand, the prim and the prurient meet and
merge, and Buddhist monks may be invited to extend their benediction
to a girlie bar" (ibid: 500).
To enhance their luck, the girls also appear to
employ a good deal of love magic (sanee) (Thongthew-Ratarasarn,
1~T9), though precise information on the subject was difficult to
get hold of. While the quest for luck in open-ended prostitution,
by means of religious ritual, is an indicator of a perceived absence
of disruption with tradition, if not of continuation, it does not
yet explain the source of the game element in the trade and the
playful willingness to take risks. Theravada Buddhism certainly
does not approve of games of luck and gambling. Whatever the standing
of gambling in official Buddhist ideology, however, it is a fact
that Thais are enthusiastic gamblers -- as illustrated by the popularity
of the national lottery and in the widespread betting common in
the traditional Thai sports of cock-fighting and Thai-boxing (muay).
Indeed, many girls in the trade are inveterate gamblers: card playing
sessions in the soi are a favorite pastime and sometimes last for
several days, involving considerable sums of money. The girls' profligacy
in gambling stands in sharp contrast to the frugality of their daily
life-styles. They frequently risk all their money in a single gambling
session, after which they have to sell or pawn their jewelry and
other possessions, or borrow money from their friends to meet basic
necessities.
The attitude of many girls to their job also resembles
that to a gamble. Most girls claim that they dislike their job,
and complain of "boredom" (beua). Rather than relating
to it neutrally as "work", whose reward is in the earnings,
they seek to make it an enjoyable, gratifying activity (sanuk);
Phillips, 1~65: 59-61). They prefer partners with whom they have
a satisfying, enjoyable relationship--a "good time". Their
attitude to their job also includes an element of excitement and
indefinite hope, characteristic of that found with gamblers. There
is always, in the background, a vague expectation of winning the
big prize or making a killing -- whether by catching a wealthy and
generous customer, becoming a mistress to a permanent boyfriend,
or even finding a husband who will take the girl away from the prostitution
scene altogether. The highest prizes in this game of luck are those
which enable the player eventually to leave the game.
For most who leave, however, the departure proves
to be merely temporary: lovers go away and marriages disintegrate,
and the girls return to their previous job, recognizing, as Keyes
(forthcoming) pointed out, "through their own experience of
the loss of lovers ... the truth of Buddha's teaching about suffering".
Still others, though economically secure, cannot permanently forego
the excitement of the game itself -- and when they have the opportunity,
e.g. during a visit from abroad or the absence of their boyfriend,
they return to their old haunts, to "butterfly" (jouchu
). It is neither the quest of money nor sex which brings them there,
but rather the excitement of the game itself: particularly the desire
to find out whether they are still attractive to farangs and capable
of making a killing. More than anything else, such girls exemplify
the character of open-ended prostitution as not just "work",
but as a "skillful game of luck", played for excitement
and not only merely for gain.
CONCLUSIONS: THE STRUCTURE AND DYNAMICS OF OPEN-ENDED
PROSTITUITION
The preceding presentation and analysis leads to three significant
conclusions concerning the structure and dynamics of the occupational
culture of open-ended prostitution -- as practiced by tourist-oriented
prostitutes in Bangkok:There exists a high degree of fit between
the opportunity structure facing the girls who work in bars and
coffee-shops, and their occupational culture. In contrast to the
more limited but also more evenly distributed opportunities in brothel
or massage parlor prostitution, these girls face greater but much
more uneven and fluctuating opportunities. The difference ensues
from differences in the institutional structure of brothels and
massage parlors as compared to bars and coffee-shops, the different
position of the girls in these establishments and the differences
in the nature of the customers:
A Brothels and massage parlors are closed institutions,
and the girls are prohibited from leaving with their customers,
at least during work hours; hence they are limited to routine, mostly
short-time sexual intercourse, and consequently are also more routinely
remunerated than the more independently operating bar and coffee-shop
girls;
b. Bar and coffee-shop girls, owing to their relative
independence do not have to share their income with the establishment
and various intermediaries; however, they also do not enjoy the
protection which such establishments provide to their employees;
c. Bar and coffee shop girls work most with farang
customers, who, being predominantly on vacation and free from normal
obligations and impediments, are more willing to spend money and
to get involved in an adventure than the more sedate customers of
brothels or massage parlors, who are either locals or resident farangs,
encumbered with various obligations or impediments. The number of
vacationing farangs, however, fluctuates owing to seasonal and global
economic factors, a circumstance which causes considerable fluctuation
in the girls' income.
d. The work situation of the girls thus features
both considerable opportunities as well as much uncertainty, and
even risk. It is this combination of opportunity and risk which
poses a series of dilemmas for the girls; the occupational culture
of the girls can be seen largely as an attempt to resolve these
dilemmas:
Opportunism vs. security: the highly skewed and
fluctuating opportunity structure facing bar and coffee-shop girls
induces in them a marked opportunism; but such opportunism increases
the risks of their trade and induces its opposite -- a search for
security through protracted liaisons. The great majority of these
are temporary -- they last at most for the length of a tourist'
s stay; some, however are more protracted, extending through correspondence
and repeat visits, for several years, and leading, in some cases,
to a master-mistress relationship. Open ended prostitution is thus
an optimizing strategy which combines opportunism with the quest
for security under conditions of a highly skewed and fluctuating
opportunity structure.
It should be noted, however, that these two concerns,
unaximal exploitation of opportunities and achievement of security
reflect in a concrete, localized form the two poles of one of the
principal pair of contradictory Thai cultural codes: the emphasis
on individual independence, on the one hand, and on structural hierarchy
on the other (Cohen, 1984)5. Opportunism in open-ended prostitution
is the girls' version of the wider cultural tendency to individualism,
while the emphasis on security is their version of integration into
a social hierarchy, their waiving of insecure independence for secure
dependence, finding its fullest expression in the wider Thai society
in the diatic kinship or patron-client relationship, and in the
concrete case of the girls, in the establishment of a mistress-master
relationship. The hierarchical principal characteristic of much
of Thai society is thus extended to the farang, who comes to play
the patron's role and finds himself burdened, often to his uncomprehending
astonishment and dismay, with a series of social obligations which
automatically fall to his part. While even Thai patron-client relations
are frequently unstable, relations with farang clients are even
more so --since the impermanency of the patron's presence facilitates
the girl's involvement in new relationships during his absences.
(2) Work and Game: etically seen, open ended prostitution,
like all full time prostitution, is work -- the girl has to attend
daily to her job, wait long hours for a customer, conduct repetitive
and boring conversations with unattractive and often uncomprehending
foreigners; emically, however, it is more of a game in which the
girls compete, with skill and daring, and what they consider "luck",
for the prizes which the prospective customers offer. While such
an attitude may be foreign to the neutral, professional, Western
prostitutes, it very much reflects in the concrete area of prostitution,
a wider Thai cultural attitude emphasizing preference for activities
which are pleasurable or fun (sanuk) (Phillips, 1965: 59-61), and
an aversion to purely neutral, reward-oriented "work".
(3) Economic Interest and Emotional Involvement:
open ended prostitution is predicated upon an extension of the initial
mercenary encounter between the girl and her customer into a more
protracted relationship. Thereby, however, the nature of the relationship
is frequently changed into a "mixed" one, involving on
the part of the girl both economic interests and emotional involvement;
though such a development agrees with the girl's tendency to assimilate
the relationship to a patron-client one, it also generates, from
the farang's point of view, considerable ambiguity and leads to
misunderstandings and conflicts.
This review of the contrary tendencies in open-ended
prostitution leads to our concluding question: the extent to which
open-ended, tourist-oriented prostitution signifies social change
in Thailand, as Keyes recently argued, or, contrariwise, is just
another novel expression of pervasive and persevering Thai cultural
trends.
The concept of change is thus not an absolute,
but depends on one' s frame of reference. Open-ended prostitution
at first view involves considerable change; a more detailed analysis,
however, reveals a surprising degree of cultural continuity -- though
it could be claimed that the balance between the traditional cultural
codes has, in open-ended prostitution, shifted so much to the individualistic
(though opportunistic pole, and structural hierarchical checks have
been so weakened), that Thai culture has been distorted out of recognition.
Moreover, a clear break with the past and a definite, indisputable
"change" has taken place in those cases where the girls
themselves substituted a modern Western emic perspective on their
job for the Thai one· that such a substitution exists has
been shown by our analysis of their differential emic interpretations
of the various types of relationships with farangs. Our data, however,
is insufficient to determine whether the shift to a Western perspective
dominates the scene of open-ended prostitution, or whether the majority
of the girls still interpret their relationships with farangs in
terms of a more traditional Thai emic perspective.
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